Your friends have a massive impact on your life, affecting everything from how much money you make, to where you travel and who you marry, so it should come as no surprise that friends affect the balance in your life. To understand how friends affect feng shui you need to understand how they affect the balance in your life both positively and negatively, depending on the friend. Here are some tips for helping you decide whether a friendship is still worth pursuing.
Positive Friendships, Positive Balance
Obviously, if a close, healthy friendship is a part of your life it will affect your life in a positive way. These types of relationships are the best ways to improve all the different parts of your life, including making money and finding true love. The relationship does not have to be romantic or sexual for it to be positive; the friend just needs to be a person who inspires you to greater things in your life.
To find more balance in your life, find positive friendships on all levels, from a love partner to close friends, family friends, casual friends, and even business relationships. This will help you eliminate stress and chaos in your life, which will increase your productivity and relaxation times. When you are making more money and getting enough rest, other parts of your life also begin to fall into place; for this reason you should do everything you can to eliminate all relationships that do not fall into this category.
Negative Friendships, Negative Balance
Where there is an up there is always a down, and a negative friendship can be a quick down that ruins your day, such as a friend who always talks bad about people or asks to borrow things without returning them. Most of us have at least one person who we call a friend who can fall into this category. While most people can have a negative attitude sometimes, it is the predominant attitude that matters; and if someone is rarely positive, the friendship is probably not a good contribution to your life.
Adding balance means eliminating most of the relationships that fall into this category for positive feng shui but it is not always practical to end every negative relationship. For example, it may be your boss who is the problem, or one of your parents or siblings. In cases like this, do everything you can to improve the relationship from your own end, and continue to do what you can to help them make things better on the other end. Find out if there is unresolved conflict or ancient transgressions that are preventing you from having a good relationship. Even if the relationship can be improved from negative to neutral, this is progress worth pursuing.
As you work to improve relationships, it is often the small steps that matter the most, and the same is true for learning about how friends affect feng shui positively and negatively. Learn to balance the good with the bad, getting rid of the bad when it begins to become a serious problem in your life.
Metal-Wall-Art.com senior staff writer, Alyssa Davis, specializes in designing with wolf metal wall art and sun metal wall art.
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