It can be very hard to find the right person to love, whether you are looking for a romantic partner or close personal friend. It is even more important to pick the right people for close friendships when you have children. There are so many people who will take advantage of close friendships in order to get something they want, from sex to objects you own, that using feng shui to choose your love partner is essential. Here are some helpful tips for allowing the ancient Chinese principle to guide your friendships, including potential marriage material or bedroom partners.
Kua is Key
Most cultures believe that opposites attract, and this is often true for all relationships, although you will need to have things in common for the relationship to deepen beyond casual acquaintances. However, people can like the same movies, music, or activities, even have a similar sense of humor and values, without being very much alike at all. These qualities are due to kua, which is talked about elsewhere on the website, and this dictates Eastern and Western personalities (or opposite love matches). Opposite matches are often the best types of all kinds of friendships.
As you get to know someone, find out which group they fit into and choose people who are opposite of your field. For instance, if you fall into the Eastern category, find Western friends and lovers, and the reverse is also true. This can create deep and lasting friendships that mean a lot to you and your family, even if they never lead to sex or marriage. They key is learning about your own kua first and then finding opposites that enrich your life and the lives of your children. Apply basic fend shui principles and love yourself first; the other relationships will come with time and energy spent to develop the bond.
Add Peonies
Feng shui experts say that peonies and other symbols of love are the key to using feng shui for finding love, so make sure that they are represented in your home, on your person, and even in your car or desk at work. We have articles dedicated to maximizing feng shui for love, but be sure to read them carefully to avoid overdoing the love symbols and creating chaos. Chaotic and haphazard placement of items can send your relationships in the opposite direction, and instead of choosing a love partner you may wind up with a new enemy instead.
The objects that you use should be dictated by the type of love you are hoping to attract, such as a new romantic partner versus a close family friend. Focus on the northwest bagua when you want new friends; the southwest bagua is absolutely critical for love relationships. If you are hoping for really good family friends the east bagua should be your focal area of your home. Feng shui can help so many different parts of your life, from your health to how much money you make and whether you have friends and fall in love.
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